7 Uplifting Grief Relief Invitations

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Here are seven dependable, practical, and essential considerations vital to reconciling your grief and loss, and finding new happiness. They are personal invitations for you.
1-Needs - Trustworthy Fulfillment There are must-have and nice-to-have personal and unique needs. Every person has them. Because of your unique grief loss happening there are personal considerations that make your need satisfaction singularly to you. The result for your grief has changed your life for the future - forever. Solutions unique and exclusive to your particular individual circumstances are where you should concentrate your efforts. Concentrate your efforts on the conditions and actions that will benefit you to find peace and happiness in meeting your personal needs and accept the things you can't change.
2-Practical Wants Attentions Some wishes we express are really not practical, reasonable, or beneficial. Excessive wish fulfillment is not a valuable option. Some have expressed it this way: "If wishes were fishes we'd all have a fry, and if lamb-pooh were chocolate we'd eat till we die." Some wishes of 70-degree weather, roses everywhere and sunny days forever are not practical every-day wants. Given the conditions caused by your grief and loss, attention to your unique situation - long-term peace, strength, well-being, and lasting happiness are the wants you should seek.
3-What's Essentially Important To You? To have your old life back after a horrendous unwanted grief happening is not possible. Understanding your grief and finding new purpose and happiness in your new life is critical to your ongoing well-being. Learning about and accepting the new me is essential for the rest of your new life. Accepting your permanent change and striving to make the best of your "now condition" is a legitimate crucial action on your part.
4-When Is Your Healing time-table?
"A feeling of pleasure or solace can be so hard to find when you are in the depths of your grief. Sometimes it's the little things that help get you through the day. You may think your comforts sound ridiculous to others, but there is nothing ridiculous about finding one little thing to help you feel good in the midst of pain and sorrow!" ~Elizabeth Berrien
After experiencing the heartache of tremendous grief some need a brief hiatus to regroup and find ways to meet the new challenge to heal. Others would wish to hibernate thinking and hoping that in the spring everything will have healed. As your grief loss healing clock tick tocks, it does so at its own time. It keeps the correct time for you. However, hoping and wishing, although necessary on your grief relief journey, are only part of the valuable and essential healing journey. No one else can take the necessary steps to heal your sorrow from your grief and loss conditions. It all begins and ends with you. Your healing time-table must begin with you. How about now?
5-When Will You Be Taking Action? Although we have addressed your healing time table in the foregoing invitation number four, strong consideration should be given to when you will personally take daily actions. Pick three or four daily actions you will initiate into your daily routine. Begin today and every day thereafter.
6-What Do You Hope Will Happen? 
"Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place." ~Sarah Dessen, The Truth About Forever 
Hope and peace should be something you desire. After severe grief and loss, returning to life as it was is not possible. But to hope for a fuller life blessed with calm and refreshing anticipation is something you should seek. Transformation from a broken, aching, grieving and sorrowful heart should be your constant healing effort. Are you willing to explore the possibilities? Reconciling your grief is what makes you heal and to start healing is what you hope will happen.
7-Absolute Dependable Considerations You will want to surround yourself with all people, keys and solutions to support you on your healing journey. Life is a journey with potholes and detours along the way. When grief and loss are encountered, the ruts are deeper, and the detours broader; the challenge is greater. It is absolutely important that you don't allow your grief experience to imprison your future happiness. After all, beginning today, is the rest of your life. Consider any and all possible solutions to make your new you - your now future life - hopeful and fuller. Absolutely consider all actions you can take to bring you new purpose, more peace and hope.
"The darker the night, the brighter the stars, 
The deeper the grief, the closer is God!" ~Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Crime and Punishment
After all you can do consider what God can help you do. Walking alone can be lonely. Walking with God's inspiration and blessings is better than walking alone.
You can discover the top 7 Grief Relief Strategies to move beyond your grief and loss. Visit http://www.griefreliefacademy.com/ to get your FREE 7-day audio e-course - a ($97) value. Learn how to recover from your loss and sorrow and Reclaim Happiness. Duane H. Marchant is a Grief Relief Specialist who supports men and women throughout the world. He is an author, grieving niche speaker, coach, amputee, caregiver, and founder of Grief Relief Academy. He believes life is precious and dedicates his time to helping all who sorrow - stop grieving & start healing. Duane has an unwavering belief that there is hope and peace beyond even the most profound and painful experiences of life.
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